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Wedding Dinner Music

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If there is a mixed generation of guests, all genres of easy listening music can work well during dinner. This playlist can include the favourite easy listening songs of the Bride and Groom also.

If you have several generations attending your reception, try to have a variety of musical selections that will appeal to everyone. Your grandparents will appreciate hearing Bing Crosby or Nat King Cole in between selections that are more modern.

Playing 3 songs from each genre is a balanced amount of "genre" songs to create an interesting mix for the large generation of guests, family and friends that will atend the reception.

Music that is not too loud, overpowering or makes a statement is best for during the meal. Something your guests can hum and tap their feet along to.

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Title
Artist
Year
Youtube
Song Info
Counting Crows
2003
Rickie Lee Jones
1979
Harry Nilsson
1971
Paul Simon
1986
Fleetwood Mac
1977
Coldplay
2005
Sting
1993
Stone Roses
1990
Youth Group
2006
Jamie Cullum
2006
Jeff Buckley
1993
The Thompson Twins
1987
Van Morrison
1970
Seal
2004
Barry White
1974
Beach Boys
1966
Dido
2004
Robbie Williams
1999
Lou Reed
1972
Elton John
1970

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Title Artist Year
Youtube
Submitted By
Song Info
Back at One
Brian McKnight
1999
Amanda
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Better Together
Jack Johnson
2006
Adam
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Love Should
Moby
2005
Melissa
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Porcelin
Moby
2000
Elise
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Something About Us
Clay Aiken
2008
Emme
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The Luckiest
Ben Folds
2001
Jodie
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More about the Wedding Dinner

Dinner MusicYour wedding dinner will feature food and drinks that you spent months agonizing over – what food would be served, how the tables would be decorated and what the seating arrangements would be.  You’re sure to want everyone to be able to relax, enjoy the food and socialize with each other. 

The focus should be on the food and pleasant conversation.  Music should be a background feature that enhances but doesn’t overwhelm, which is why most couples select a variety of easy listening or jazz pieces for the dinner interlude.

A good blend is to play three selections from one generation grouped together, then move on to three from another era and so on; it makes the transition less jarring and gives everyone a chance to really enjoy “their” music.  In most cases, vocal music is played, but if you are having an extremely formal black tie affair you may want to opt for instrumental music only and steer toward classical or instrumental jazz music.

Controlling the Volume of Wedding Dinner Music

The key to successful background music during dinner is volume control.  Be sure you talk to the band or DJ and have a clear understanding of what you expect.  The music should be loud enough to provide some atmosphere, but should not make conversation at each table difficult.  If people at each table need to shout at each other to be heard, the music is too loud.

It’s also important to pay a bit more if necessary to see that the speakers and sound system are balanced throughout the room.  You don’t want some diners seated close to loud, intrusive speakers and have their eardrums blasted with sound while others can’t hear the music at all.  You may have to have the speakers moved some between the dining and dancing portions of the evening to get the right balance, and that’s fine – it’s certainly preferable to people being uncomfortable during dinner.

Consider Wedding Dinner Theme Music

Does your wedding have a particular theme, such as a beach wedding or a Christmas wedding?  If so, the dinner music is an ideal time to tie your music in with your theme.  You can have a great deal of fun if you play some steel drum or calypso music during the meal for your beach wedding. 

A Christmas wedding will be even more festive if you enhance the meal with a selection of traditional Christmas carols.  And of course, an Italian wedding wouldn’t be complete without some Italian love songs by crooners like Dean Martin and Frank Sinatra!

Start your dinner music on the mellow side at the beginning, then build toward more up-tempo songs as the meal progresses if you like.  This will get the guests in the mood for the dancing and festivities to come and keep them from getting too sluggish from all that wonderful food and drink!

For sample wedding dinner playlists, make sure to check out The Wedding Reception Kit.

Wishing you a brilliant wedding day soundtrack,

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